How can you find out who loves you?
It’s tricky to determine as love can be a crooked thing. Even Albert Einstein or Doctor Who can’t know all that is in love.
Love per se develops in 3 stages. It starts with lust. Then, attraction. Afterwards, it grows into attachment.
To know what stage that someone is experiencing, you’ll need to examine his/her actions, as well as his/her behavior and attitude.
The first thing that you must pay close attention to is the body language of that person. To find out if that person loves you, he/she makes a lot of physical contact with you when he/she’s near you.
If he/she does, it simply means that he/she has strong feelings for you.
Listen to his/her tone
During your conversation with him/her, take note of his/her tone. Then, compare it when he/she is talking to others.
He/she loves you that much if he/she uses caring or compassionate tone when conversing to you but his/her tone changes when talking to others.
Does he/she stick around for no reason? If he/she does, then this is another way to know on how to find out who loves you. Instead of just meeting you up at the party, he/she wants to go grocery shopping with you so he/she can spend more time with you while preparing a dish for the party.
Times he/she contacts you
In various studies conducted, researchers found out that having high levels of serotonin could cause someone to think about his/her partner.
Thus, the more he/she calls/texts you throughout the day, the more he’s/she’s obviously thinking about you. This is another indication that he/she loves you.
And before he/she goes to bed, he/she calls you up.
If he/she gives you meaningful gifts, then it’s a true sign he/she is in love with you. It’s another way to find out who loves you.
Meaningful doesn’t mean expensive. It only means that he/she spent hours of his/her time to find you that perfect gift that fits your personality.
What would you do if he/she is truly in love with you?
After finding out that that person is in love with you, you might freak out. But don’t be. Instead, you must be yourself. Your uniqueness is the first thing that makes him/her love you. Make it your charm. You may not have a body of a model. But for him/her, you’re more attractive than Angelina Jolie or Brad Pitt.
Have that right attitude. This will only make you more attractive to that person. Avoid having that gloomy look. Avoid screaming each time you face something that’s unexpected.
And most of all, give attention to your grooming habit. Having a body odor is indeed a turn off. No matter how beautiful your face is, you’ll still be turned down by the person who loves you when you have a body odor.
You must consider highly your oral hygiene. Use a mouth fresher before cozying up with him/her.
Finding out who loves you can be easier with those tips above. Follow them and you’ll be amazed by the results.